Richard Mayhew, Beloved Centenarian

HE AND HIS ART MADE THE WORLD, ESPECIALLY MY WORLD, BETTER

Richard Mayhew’s “Spiritual Transitions”, book cover courtesy of the artist and ACA Galleries, NYC (Author photo)

Richard Mayhew cast a benevolent smile my way when my husband introduced me, then his new bride, at a San Francisco gallery show in the early 1990s. Before the evening ended Mayhew had accepted a dinner invitation for the next night, and within another 24 hours I became a confirmed fan.

Reading of his death, at 100, in the New York Times, saddens me — but brings back a flood of shiny memories.

Mayhew loved to talk jazz, or art, or about his work with Romare Bearden and fellow Black artists from many disciplines in the tumultuous 1960s. Or about his heritage, which included Black and Native American ancestry. I loved hearing it all, but I loved his gorgeous paintings the most.

The Times (which twice erroneously refers to the Fine Arts Museums of San Francisco as the “San Francisco Museum of Art,” but we try to be forgiving) quotes Mayhew in an earlier interview as saying his landscapes “internalize my emotional interpretations of desire, hope, fear and love. So instead of a landscape, it’s a mindscape.” They are stunningly lovely, colorful, mystical works you can find in many great museums.

All of which made this personal encounter rather magical in itself:

My book Dying Unafraid, the first I’d ever published that was straight from my heart, was in its final pre-publication stages when an invitation arrived at our house for a 1998 Mayhew show at ACA Galleries in New York. A reproduction of one of the paintings in the show, “Spiritual Transitions,” was featured on the invitation cover. 

“That’s it!” said my husband. “That’s the cover for your book.” 

(Author photo)

Well, good luck with that, I remember thinking. Mayhew had been to dinner one time a half-dozen years earlier, but that hardly qualified us as great friends. We had not crossed paths or corresponded since then, and weren’t going to make it to New York for the show. The painting — minor detail — was listed for sale at $40,000.

My husband, not one to let minor details interrupt a good idea, picked up the phone and called Mayhew at his studio. 

“Oh, sure,” he said. “I’ll have the gallery send a slide to the designer today.” Whereupon, Debra Turner Design created one of what I consider the two great book covers of all time (the other being remarkable artist Ward Schumaker’s cover design for my Perilous Times.) 

A few years later, when I was invited to participate in the 2001 Hospice Mask Project, I decided to collage my mask with torn bits of the beautiful Dying Unafraid book jacket. But would this be disrespectful? A misuse of something which, in my humble opinion, bordered on the sacred?

Not brave enough to pick up the phone, I sent Mayhew a note, mentioning my plan. On receipt, he picked up the phone himself and called my husband — the traditional intermediary, more broadly known among our friends as The Great Encourager.

“Tell Fran that’s an excellent idea,” he said. “It’s all about inspiration.”

Richard Mayhew was an inspiration for the ages. May he rest in gratitude and well-earned peace.

(The mask – Author photo)

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The Incredible Joy of Art

INTRODUCING AN 8-YEAR-OLD TO A MUSEUM, AND A FAVORITE ARTIST FRIEND

Olympia and her mom studying a Ruth Asawa wire sculpture (Author photo)

I was lucky enough to have known the artist Ruth Asawa. And now I’m lucky to know one of her newest fans.

Born in California in 1926 to Japanese immigrant farmers who were not allowed to become American citizens or own land, Asawa endured family separation and hardships after the eruption of World War II that would have embittered the most generous of souls. She and her siblings lived for five months in horse stalls still reeking of dung, going from there to an overcrowded internment camp that was surrounded by barbed wire and watch towers.

But Asawa harbored no resentment and cast no blame, saying decades later “I would not be who I am today had it not been for the Internment.” Because in those years she first discovered her love for painting and drawing and began what would be an amazing lifetime of art: creating, teaching, drawing everyone around her into the beauty she saw and knew. (Among the several fine books about Asawa my favorite is Everything She Touched by Marilyn Chase. Worth a read. Great Christmas gift.)

Asawa wire sculpture in Whitney show (Author photo)

The first major show of Asawa’s drawings is at the Whitney Museum until January 15, Ruth Asawa Through Line, and it is balm for the soul.

My visit was extra special thanks to my new friend Olympia. She arrived, with her mom, a writer friend, all dressed up and appropriately excited. If I were more knowledgable myself it would have been helpful for Olympia’s art education, but I absolutely loved being the gateway — and being able to tell tales of knowing Asawa in San Francisco.

The author with Ruth Asawa, early 2000s

In the Whitney gallery, we met another woman who had been a neighbor, and it quickly became the Old Hometown Asawa Admiration Society. Ruth and her husband, architect Al Lanier whom she met at Black Mountain College, raised their children in a charming but unpretentious house around the corner from the school where she was a constant presence.

Asawa’s hands were never still. When she came to tea at my house she would pull a batch of papers from her bag and, while we talked, turn them into origami doves or other shapes. I remember saying, as she left the table scattered with beautiful little origami pieces, “Ruth! Are these mine?!?” (They were.)

The visit to the Whitney show was the best of Art: introducing a young newcomer and honoring a down-to-earth yet extraordinary woman who spent her life bringing others into her world. It was a world of beauty and essential humanity.

You can see it until January 15. Take an 8-year-old with you if you can.

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